Just a normal picture of the kids.. Hannah trying to look as sweet as ever, Nolan wondering what he is looking at, and Hailey distracted by something! |
I know we have been mostly posting about the Maasai
ministries on this blog but this morning as my girls are off at school and
Nolan is sleeping there are so many things I could be doing but I feel the need
to write a bit about my kids. So, for those
of you that read about kids and are tired of hearing stories of other peoples
kids, I’m sorry!! You may not want to continue., but for those of you who want
to hear more about who my kids are, here you go.....
Hannah started school in April. She was so excited to go to school and we were
so excited for her to go. The first week
was great. She went from 9-3. At first
we thought that was too much to start
with but after picking her up at 3 she didn’t seem upset with the amount of
time we had her in her class. But after the
first couple days Hannah started showing signs of stress. She would get very, very nervous before we
got to school and then came the screaming.
We had her teachers take her inside and she would be screaming for us
not to leave her. I decided then that we
would pick her up early. Maybe the amount of time she was gone was too hard for
her to start so quickly with. When I
would pick her up in the afternoon she would cry that she wanted to stay at
school and why was I picking her up before all the other kids. She was so mad at me for picking her up
early. So, we tried a couple more days
of her screaming in the morning, hiding in her room and then again, at the end
of the day screaming that she didn’t
want to leave school. We would wait
outside the school gate in the mornings and listen for about 2 minutes and the screaming
would stop. Every day when she came home
she was so proud of everything she did at school. She couldn’t stop talking
about how much she loved school but in the morning her fear would come
again. She started biting her nails and just
shaking. We decided to give her a break.
We pulled her out for a week to reassess what to do. The teachers encouraged us to bring her again
but maybe for only 3 days. Then we
brought Nolan home so getting her to think about leaving her brother to go to school
was hard. We thought of another
solution. Hailey kept asking when she
was going to get to go to school. We kept telling her it wasn’t time yet and
not til she was five. So, the teachers
suggested hailey going to school a couple days a week. They had a program for 3
year olds. We asked Hannah if she would
go if hailey went. That perked her up
and got her excited to show Hailey everything and have her there with her. So, these past 3 weeks Hailey has been a champ and now Hannah can't wait to go to school, whether it is with Hailey or by herself. She was so excited to go. The teachers says she gets a bit tired by the
end of the day but she is very happy to be at school. It is so funny listening to what their
teachers say about them. Here is a bit
of what I have heard about my two girls from school:
Hailey answers every
question (whether she knows the answer or not).
She has a lot of energy and likes to just play, even if it is by
herself. She excuses herself from
learning time and goes and sits in the corner and plays with a toy J She pretends to be
animals all of the time, walking on all fours.
When asked if she wanted to do show and
tell she said “yes, right now”.
They told her that she needed to wait a couple of days and it would be
her turn. All day she kept asking when
she could share. She wanted to share
about her headband. She wanted to show
everyone the different ways she could wear it.
When I came to pick her up she ran out to me yelling “mom please go
home. I haven’t shared about my headband. They keep telling me Thursday but I
want to share right now!”. The teachers
at Sunday school have asked me if she always has this many stories at home and
if I really think they are all true.:)
My social little butterfly. She
plays with every kid there, including the older ones and is not afraid to sing
and dance. When Hailey colors she uses
every color she can find and colors as fast as she can to make it look as
colorful and beautiful as she can! When
she plays with Nolan it is with so much intensity that sometimes she knocks him
over because she is hugging him so hard!
Hannah is reserved.
She sits and waits until she is called on and even then sometimes
refuses to give an answer. Most of the
time I am sure that she knows the answer she is just so nervous to say it. She has a very good friend at school that she
loves and says how thankful she is that she has such a good friend. Hannah is very respectful and always
remembers to say please and thank you.
She adores her teacher and loves the times that they get to learn. She sits anxiously waiting to learn more but
then when it is time to play she chooses very carefully who she and her “best
friend Amanda” are going to play with.
When asked if she would do show and tell she asked if she could try and
if she was too scared if she could stop.
Yesterday, she brought a toy that her Auntie Sarah and her cousin Emma
gave her (yes, Uncle John and Johnny did as well but she said she was pretty
sure the boys didn’t pick out this out cause it was a princess thing and boys
would have picked her out a ball or something).
They said that she was very nervous but she got up there and shared her
toy. On the way home I noticed she had
bitten her nails all the way down to bleeding, but she was so proud of herself
for doing it. She said “Mom they absolutely loved it! They were all smiling at
me and their questions made me so happy.
They really were so happy I shared!”
Hannah’s heart is in everything she does. She is so sensitive and I have seen the good
that can come out of that. At home the
other day she was sick with a fever and a stomach bug. She was lying in my bed watching a movie with
Hailey (who pretends she is sick when Hannah is so she can watch the movie) and
she said that when the movie was over she saw a shadow in the room. It wasn’t a normal shadow though, it was a
white shadow. She was so confused
because she hasn’t ever seen a white shadow, only gray shadows. Then she realized that it was Jesus watching
over her. She told me that she told
Hailey and just sat and hugged Hailey as they looked at the shadow. She told me
she felt so loved by Jesus that He was sitting in that room with her! Another day she was drawing a picture of
Jesus and made him half dark brown and half yellow. When we talked to her about
it she said that Jesus told her that He was not just for Americans but he was
God for the Maasai so Jesus must look like he is all different colors. He couldn’t be all brown or all yellow, he
had to have a little of each person in him. I am constantly in awe of the things Hannah
hears from Jesus. She teaches me more about Jesus every day.
Nolan is a funny little boy.
He mimics everything that we do.
After we sneeze, he tries to make that sound. When we laugh he pretends he is laughing
hysterically. He always tries to dance,
even when walking by someones house with music on. He loves to be held and I believe he would be
fine never being put down on the floor but when you put him down he crawls so
incredibly fast! His adventurous side is
slowing coming out. He is very social as
long as someone he knows is holding onto him.
Anybody that walks by our house he waves at and screams. He wants people to look at him. He has started to squint his eyes thinking he
is making a funny face and then starts laughing. He has learned so much in the past month..
Yes, June 8th it will be a full month that he has been home with us!
He has learned to wave hi and goodbye, when we say Hello he puts whatever he is
playing with up to his ear and mimics the sound of hello like he is talking on
a phone, he signs “more” and “all done” when he is eating. He knows High five and how to clap. He tickles
the girls. He has learned what “hapana”
means and stops when he hears it. “Hapana”
means no in Swahili. We realized after naming Nolan that “no” sounds a lot like
his name. Nick sings a song that just
says “no no no no no no “ and Nolan loves it and starts to dance every time. So
one day he tried to turn on the stove and I said “no no” and he started smiling
and dancing… so we are using “hapana and tabala (Maasai)”. Nolan
has been a trooper out in Maasai land and has gone to visit a couple of
bomas. He isn’t too scared of the Maasai
and even gives them high fives. The one
thing he is fearful of is animals! He
sees anything and starts to cry. We aren’t
sure what made him so scared of animals but even chickens frighten him. He is terrified so we have tried to keep all
animals away from him. He is adjusting
so well now and has stopped crying when his food is all gone and when his
bottle is empty. When he came home he
had 2 bottom teeth and now one top tooth just came through yesterday The other is sooo close! I am hoping after
those come through his naps during the day will start getting longer than 20
minutes!!
So, those are my kids. They are all soo different and so
amazing! I feel soo blessed to be able
to raise them. Lately I have been
feeling so overwhelmed and really wondering what I am doing! I have forgotten what it was like to be a mom
to a baby. Nolan needs everything! He
needs his diaper to be changed (every hour due to changes of food and his
stomach trying to adjust), a bottle, spoon fed all of his food (he is still
trying to grasp food but won’t put it near his mouth), played with him all of
the time, etc. All the things I forgot
about when you have a 3 and 5 year old.
The hard part is its all started right away. There was no newborn
time. No time to adjust. Just BAM a 9 month old that needs me 24 hrs a
day. I had been waiting and waiting for
this moment but I forgot what this would mean.
My day is full of poop, bottles, making my own food, playing with
blocks, and cleaning up again. Its
different than in the states where I have friends around to help or to just
vent to when the days are hard. It feels
so different to not be in a familiar place with a new baby. Everything feels harder. Getting food, making food and hoping the
electricity will stay on long enough to be able to blend the food I am making,
finding diapers that don’t leak every time that he goes to the bathroom, etc. I
have been so homesick and really missing family and friends.
With Nolan home the girls have been a little
more needy. Just last night Hannah told
me that she really misses me being her mom!
This broke my heart and I started to cry. I asked her what she meant and
she said before when she would ask me to play with her sometimes I would say I
have work to do but other times I would play with her. Now every time I say I have work to do. She asked me if I could please have Daddy make
dinner tomorrow so that I could have some time to sit and play or draw or
something with her. She told me that she
doesn’t know why she is so sad but she just feels like I choose everything over
being with her. Oh man, that shot right
to the heart. I had been feeling like maybe
I should take on something else at the base or do more ministry out in
Engikaret with the maasai women and trying to figure out how to do that. I had been feeling like being a mom wasn’t
enough right now. After she said that I
felt so excited about what my work is and I felt inspired to be able to be a
mom to my kids. Today when I woke up it
felt like a new day and that the Holy Spirit really poured out on me an
overwhelming love for my children. I am
going to walk in that!
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